She's Getting Married!

Yesterday afternoon, Pixie messaged me;

Pixie: Babe, can you lend me a pair of ears tonite?

Me: Just a pair of ears? Can I send over?

Pixie: Niasing!

After work I called her;

Me: Can we go to MCDs instead of KimGary?

Pixie: Can can..

Me: What's the news? Getting married ah?

Pixie: No LAR! Tell you later.

Me: Whoa, so secretive. Ok see you later.

I called her again at 9.30pm which was the agreed meeting time, as usual she was just coming out from her house. Hence she told me to leave the house 10 minutes later.

When I arrived at MCDs, there was no Pixie to be found. I thought I went to the wrong outlet. There are two MCDs in SS15. But usually we always always go to the drive-thru outlet. Turned out, she and JC were in the kids area.

JC: MMC! So long never see. The last time I saw you was at Bil's birthday.

Me: Wat so long, two weeks ago only whut.

JC: But it feels like forever.

Me: So what does our Lil Pixie want to announce? Are you pregnant? Getting married?

Pixie: No lar... *smiles* Let's wait for Yvonne.

Then SW walked in. I wondered to myself, what is happening? How come she called everyone?

JC: Hi, LSW. You always look glowing these days. So in love hor?

SW all in smiles....

Me: JC, you're also glowing whut. All those in love are glowing.

SW: So whats the news?

Pixie: Wait for Yvonne.

Me: Omgosh..what is it...tell...

Pixie: Errrr......I saw something I shouldn't see.

SW: Saw what?

Pixie: Saw something in text messages. When we were in Bali, someone texted him few times "I miss you" and "What are you doing?". And he deleted all sent messages and there was no name saved in his mobile.

The story became more alive and more input came in with the help of JC.

I believed every word in her story, not once I doubted her.

But she seemed very calm althou its unlike her, but then again there are many times when she is calm and mature.

We asked, so you didn't ask him about it until now?
Some said, "I can't believe you can "tahan" so long. If it was me, I would drive him up the wall and down."

Pixie: Why is it that when all of you girls are dating, I will be the odd one out.

JC: Please lar, when all of you girls are in love, I was also single for so long.

SW: Men, really aih.

Me: Aih. Anything can happen and everything happens for a reason. If he is yours, he is yours. Do you think he is a good man? If you think he is then you must talk to him. Maybe it's not to the extent to what you think.

Then I started to think about my past.
My mind brought me back to the days when I was so low and Pixie told me "Don't worry, you are one step to recovery."
Just ONE step.
Every step was so slow so long. It felt like forever. Nights on the single bed alone with my pillow and the worn t-shirt that I took home to keep to sleep to. Does she have to go through all that?
Another cycle?

I really believed her, and I empathized with her, of course with my own added thoughts.

Then I JC and SW started talking about other things, JC seemed very relaxed and not bothered at all.

I looked at Pixie, seemed like she is trying not to show her emotions.

I believed her again.

Yvonne arrived and asked what's the big news? I rushed all the way here from Pavilion!

Then JC started to tell the story.
I thought to myself, howcome JC is telling the sad news?

Suddenly, Pixie showed something on one of her fingers.
I saw something *sparkle*

It was a ring....

A ring so special, it had a knot and a big diamond in the middle of the knot.
It is said that its a knot to tie two lovers together.

This is the wedding ring that Ryan held in his trembling hands, shyly knelt down and proposed to her last week in Bali.

Apparently she was so shocked that her first reaction was that she knelt down together with him.

She asked "What are you doing baby?"

The thought of her being so blur is so cute!

He planned that from the very beginning.

You always asked him when he is gonna propose.

How can he not make it more surprising?

BUT..........

This is supposed to be a happy good news!

I don't understand why they made up such a bad story over a real proposal story.

And I believed everything she said then!

Indeed, I was shocked and feelings were mixed up in that whole 30 minutes. 

I didn't know how to react.

Anyway I am so very happy for you.

Truly am.

This is the lil pixie that we all know

Always jumping around

Dancing

Buy her some sweets

And she will be giggling like a lil girl

This lil girl is no longer a lil girl

She's getting married!

Finally....

After whispering to Ryan over 21 x ("Are you going to marry me?")

Ryan said how not to marry her :)

Another best friend getting married!

2006

Is this how you will look like on your wedding day?

Just like an angel

2003

2004

2005

2006

2007

2008

Your birthday @ Velvet

2009

My Birthday @ Velvet

2010

Pixie in a cupcake that I made

I am so looking forward to the preparation for your wedding and we're gonna have lots and lots of fun!

Congratulations Sweetie
You will have a beautiful life
Remember what we talked about before?
If we have happy thoughts and believe that we will have a happy life, we will.
Your time has come.
And that discussion was just a little while ago.

XOXO